This morning I received Phoebe's marriage and death certificates from GRO (amazingly quickly, I only ordered them on Monday

) but they are as follows:
Marriage to George Pilbeam at Peasmarsh 1843, both widow and widower and Phoebe's father is John Hadden Watson, Grocer

I've got the correct death certificate dated 1858 again at Peasmarsh, she is widow of George Pilbeam, she is 60 so born 1798.
James Catt present at the birth, but not sure who he was.
Kerry