Thank you all very much... I think they missed the deadline for 1851 and 1841!
The 1861 enumerater's writing doesn't help much does it?. I can't tell with daughter 2 whether it begins with E or U, looking at the way he has written Unm in the status box I think it might be U but.......

As for the other daughter well ... Toazlier or Toaylier or Yoazlier I am now beginning to wish she had been called Mary Ann! I have trawled through all the Northampton BMD from 1838 to 1842
and nothing jumps out for her. Each time I see a possible and check on IGI she turns out to be completely the wrong person.
Thanks again
Cheryl