OK Ewan,
i search all records sorry nothing on marridge, no rates either, nothing to go back after 1894, now i did find something interesting, i bought some credits for my family past [ i needed one my self for my cain family ] and i used 10 credits to look at alice cox 1911 census and look what i got,
Alice emily cox age 44 widow-occupation- electro plater and gilder and close plater by hand,where -born Ryde isle of white, i dont think they married because 1911 census tells you how mant years married and this blank her address was Ballagary crosby marown, i know this area well as i walk past through old railway lines, i wonder if he was on the isle of white befor here on isle of man,,