Hello Roger:
Thank you for all the very evident focus you are devoting to this topic.
Yes, Anne Bermingham, wife of Francis Caulfield, has the right age, title, location. Here I'll paste the bare bones of our family lore of Lady Anne:
They recall Jessie saying that Lady Anne was Scotch-Irish, and that she was from the castle pronounced “Glen Tarff”, Ireland. Aunt Pat says that although Anne is referred to as “Lady”, such an appellation is incorrect, because only the wife of a lord is called such, and Lady Anne’s husband was not a lord, but a duke, the Duke of Glen Tarff, and he was duke of a castle: Glen Tarff Castle..Here is a link to an interesting biography of Anne Bermingham on Google books:
http://books.google.com/books?id=UL8k71aaYtcC&printsec=frontcover&dq=Queens+of+Beauty+and+Their+Romances&hl=en&sa=X&ei=23wDU_O7NtSA2QXtzYDQDQ&ved=0CCsQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=ross%20hill&f=falseAnd as to a possible association that does not involve bloodlines: as the Vernon's of Clontarf Castle and Anne Bermingham fail to yield descendant's that connect to James Francis Burke, it does become likely that JF Burke's connection to a Lady Anne may not be by blood. What the heck, they probably all saw eachother every Sunday at St. John the Baptist church.
I hate to throw this at you, but there is a bit of confusion regarding the witness Jane. On the church record it sort of looks like "Rose", and is transcribed as such on all searches. But I believe that is incorrect, because the civil record clearly shows "Ross" (see attached image).
Here is link to a Nov. 1850 Dublin wedding record of a Jane Ross.
http://churchrecords.irishgenealogy.ie/churchrecords/details/8591fa0544790I so, so wish that I could find the name of JF Burke's mother. Why would JF and his new wife Jessie include their father's names but not their mother's names on their wedding record? How very rude!
I guess I'll just have to pray that someday I find a baptism record in Dublin for JF Burke. Until I can work backwards from him, I doubt there is any chance for clarity of who Lady Anne was and whether or not there is a blood connection.
Okay, I've got to get out of ancestry land and into all the tasks that need doing in the real world. Thanks again Roger for your incredible help.
Joe