Angela, and for that matter anyone else, if my postings have shed light on Family Historian for you then that's great.

It can be a bit mind boggling to use but it is a very good program and more gedcom compliant and customisable than any of the others.
Unfortunately it would seem that Bee had already made her mind up last night that she didn't want to use FH and in spite of asking for help on several things, has decided not to persue it any further (that's the impression I got from Bee's last post).

Bee, that's a shame, because it is a very good program. However, I note that some of my posts are actually repeating advice that you were given on FHUG in July so I'm a little confused as to why you posted them on here as you appear to have already fixed the problem (namely custom facts not importing correctly because they aren't gedcom compliant). I appreciate that on FHUG you stated you had a "steep learning curve" but, rather than getting more and more frustrated, perhaps it would have been better if you had returned to FHUG since the beginning of August and asked a few more questions. I've posted "silly" questions on there since starting to use the software and have found helpful answers. I've also found that others have posted the same questions as I and the replies they received saved me reposting again.
One word of caution, you may find that if you import your original gedcom, rather than the "fixed" one from Family Historian, into another program, you may find you have the same problem with custom facts because they aren't gedcom compliant.
In the end, its very much down to how you want to use the software to record your family history and how much you want to spend learning a new program. The more customisable the program, such as Family Historian, the steeper the learning curve but in the end I do feel you get a better solution rather than using default reports. That said, I have used Roots Magic, and its predecessor Family Origins, for many years simply for their report functionality because they had always been better than what was available in Family Tree Maker. However, having got my head around how to customise the Narrative Reports in Family Historian in the last few months, and not needing to "share" a gedcom with any other program, going forward I shall just be using Family Historian.
