Hi
A relative of my husband and I are having a few problems tracking down Ralph Patterson and his family. Ralph was married to 2 Marys which only adds to the confusion. Any help would be much appreciated as we seem to be going round and circles with him.
This is what we know so far Ralph Patterson married Mary Blain from Elford about 1835. They had 5 sons George born 1836, Edward born 1840, Robert born 1842, Ralph Pigg born 1845 and James born 1848. They all seem to be baptised around the Ford area. I haven`t found the marriage between Ralph and Mary but my husbands relative has the birth certificate for Robert Patterson which has Mary Blain mother and Ralph Patterson father.
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On the 1841 and 1851 census he was living in Ford Northumberland, According to the census he was born abt 1815. The 1851 census and 1861 census have his place of birth as Tweedmouth. We cant find any record of his birth

Mary must die sometime between 1851 and 1852 but I cant find any record
On 14th November 1852 Ralph marries Mary Emery in Ford. My husbands relative has the marriage certificate. Ralph is a widower and Mary a spinster. Ralphs fathers name is George Patterson a pitman and Mary`s is George Emery a pitman. Witnesses were John Patterson and Phillis Emery. Ralph and Mary his 2nd wife went on to have 10 children William 1854, Thomas 1855, Charles 1856, Mary 1857, Charles 1858, Jane 1860, Elizabeth 1862, John 1863, Margaret 1866 and Frances Isabella in 1868.
By 1861 Ralph and Mary were living in Netherton Northumberland where Ralph was a wasteman at Nedderton Colliery where on 25th of October 1867 Ralph was tragically killed by a fall of stone.
The marriage certificate for Ralph dosent say that George is deceased in 1852 so we would like to find any siblings if any or a birth for Ralph would be great. A death for his first wife for our records. Any help would be brill

Susan