Hello Linda, Sorry for the delay, can you confirm if this is the Harriet you looking for, she was the 4th child of Harriet Pilbeam and Thomas Simmons (married 1842)
Harriet Simmons Ticehurst,Sussex Abt 13th Oct. 1850
1851 Census Borzell Farm House aged 8months
1861 Census Lattendens Ashburnham
Sheila