Hi again, johnP-bedford,
Ah, there it is, the very wedding we were looking for. Thank you so much for taking the time and trouble. Another piece of the jigsaw neatly fitted into place...and thanks also for putting William BALDWIN's first rite of passage into the equation. So it does look indeed as though there was a 17 year gap difference between bride and groom. Isn't it rather unusual that the wife is that much older than her husband on marriage? Usually if there's a large age gap it's the wife who is the younger individual. I need to look back over this whole thread and see whether the narrative still holds together now...
Keith
...the blushing bride 2 days short of her 44th birthday...