Hi LizzieL,
Thank you for replying and I'm sorry its late formy reply. Its quite a maze trying to un-tangle this family and also the Blackford-Marshall families. As you say I can't find a burial for Robert Wayling either.
In case you are interested, their marriage in 1762 Stanford in the Vale was by licence - which reads;
Robert Wayling, Gt,Fawley, Berks to
Mary Ballard, sp, of Shellingford, Berks
B/Man; Martin King. Shellingford
Dated; Stanford in the Vale - 19-6-1753
I did not find a Mary Ballard in Shellingford other than her marriage recorded there but endorsed (Stanford in the Vale Register). The entry in the Shellingford register indicated Robert was of Faringdon but again I see no entry for him.
When Mary married Richard Parrott in 1762 it was in Fawley - St.Mary again by licence which reads;
Richard Parrott, Widower, Labourer, Stanford, Berks to
Mary Ballard, widow, Fawley, Berks
B/Man; Thomas Alloway, Yeo, Fawley.
Dated; 26-4-1762
Not sure why she didn't marry under her married name of Wayling.
I have found the 3 children of Robert & Mary (includes John but no father recorded) and have followed the John Parrott/Ann Snell family. Hannah Parrott - m - John Elton (Eltham). John was bapt. 10-4-1808 West Challow and they had at least 6 children although I believe Adelaide (bapt. 28-6-1835 B/Walton was illegitimate)
Regarding the marriage of Susannah. I cannot find an entry of Susannah Fisher to Richard Parrott (als Wealing) but there is an entry of Richard Wealing, bac to Susannah Cullum 6-10-1806 Nth Moreton. Not sure where Susan Fisher fits in to the mix but have found a baptism for Susannah Cullum 1784 Harwell.(d/o John & Sophia) Going by naming routines I'm more inclined to believe Susannah Cullum is the correct wife of Richard Wayling.
Have just found a marriage of Susanna's parents - John Cullum to Sophia Bannister 14-1-1782 Ardington. Rich'd & Susan's dtr Sophia married George Tilbury and their son goes by the name of George Bannister Tilbury so Im think I will delete the "Fisher" name.
Wishing a merry & happy xmas
Alan