Hi Rick
You are not doing anything wrong, just getting the hang of this type of research

Have a read of this post from Pam here on RootsChat:
www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,24468.0.html which provides a useful overview and will give you some background on the various resources available for research. IGI stands for International Genenealogical Index which is on this site
www.familysearch.org. It includes basic entries from the Old Parish Registers and is particularly good in Scotland for the period post the start of official registration in Scotland from 1855 with the Scottish records on IGI tailing off around 1874/5. You will see also that some of the records are submitted by members rather than actual extract from the OPRs which you need to verify elsewhere. Most importantly it is a fantastic research tool and it's free to use

In respect of James Raeburn Snr, the 1841 census entry I posted probably includes a family member from his mother's side by the look of it:
Barbara Raeburn 55, Independent
Jas Raeburn 50, farmer
John Raeburn 20
Jane
Stewart 85, Independent
Christian Craw 18
Ann Duncan 14
Address: Denhead, Chapel of Garioch
Now, on to the question of James Raeburn's parents, I think this is where you are going to begin to experience some of the highs and lows of research, when parents' names don't seem to match the facts.
James died in 1877. Did he die in Denhead? Who reported his death? I ask this because his sister Barbara died in Denhead in 1868:
1868 RAEBURN BARBARA F 75 CHAPEL OF GARIOCH /ABERDEEN 179/00 0010
Her parents were as I showed earlier from the IGI entry, James Raeburn and Isobel (a variant of Elizabeth) Stewart (I've had a look at her death cert to confirm). So the OPR extract on IGI in Fordyce would look to be the correct one.
Other children showing to this couple are, from the OPRs on SP:
1 21/04/1781 REBURN JEAN JAMES REBURN/ISABEL STEUART U Fordyce /BANFF 153/ 0030 0055
2 19/06/1785 REBURN MARGARET JAMES REBURN/ISABEL STUART U Fordyce /BANFF 153/ 0030 0080
3 06/04/1783 REBURN
BARBARA JAMES REBURN/ISABEL STEUART U Fordyce /BANFF 153/ 0030 0069
4 14/10/1787 REBURN ELSPET JAMES REBURN/ISABEL STUART U Fordyce /BANFF 153/ 0030 0101
5 14/08/1790 REBURN
JAMES JAMES REBURN/ISOBEL STUIART M Fordyce /BANFF 153/ 0030 0198
I think you probably need to do a little more digging! Maybe the next stage is to look at the Will & Testament documents available on line at SP for James?
Raeburn James 19/12/1877 residing at Denhead of Aquhorties, Parish of Chapel of Garioch Will Aberdeen Sheriff Court Wills SC1/37/80
Raeburn James 19/12/1877 farmer, Denhead of Aquhorties, parish of Chapel of Garioch, co of Aberdeen, d. 17/11/1877 at Denhead, testate Extract Inventory Aberdeen Sheriff Court Inventories SC1/36/81
Regards.
Monica
