Hi, sorry it's taken me so long to reply, blame a dose of the flu and Christmas
I'm not sure we have the same Wilsons but I'll give you the info I have found and you can see if any of it matches yours
1861 census Class: RG9; Piece: 515; Folio: 71; Page: 9; GSU roll: 542653, East Ashford, Brabourne, Kent:
James Wilson, 57, an earthenware dealer, born Oldham, Yorks
Jane (wife), 57, born Kirby, Yorks
John (son), 24, an earthenware dealer, born North Sunderland
Kitten (or Hilton) (daughter in law), born Surrey
William (son), 19, born Cambs.
James (son) 17, born Mansfield, Notts
Jeremiah (son), 9, born Newark, Kent
Jenny (daughter), 7, born Lincoln
William (grandson), 6, born Wye, Kent
Jane (grandaughter), 2, born Berfield, Kent
James (grandson), 3 months, born Canterbury, Kent
1871 census Class: RG10; Piece: 817; Folio: 67; Page: 24; Aldershot, Hampshire, Farnham, Frimley
(address noted as "107 Lower Farnham Road, 'these people appear to be travelling from place to place, making this a kind of rendezvous!')James (head), 65, Oldham, Yorks. Hawker
Jane (wife), 63, Kirby, Merseyside
William (son), 24, Cambridgeshire
Mary (daughter in law), 19, Lincolnshire, somewhere!!!!
Thomas (grandson), 7, Kent
Mary A (grandaughter), 1, Sussex
Hope this helps