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Paternal grandparents had quite an age gap and multiple relationships/marriages.  My half aunts and uncles span more than 50 years from first to last. The oldest was born in 1883, my grandmother born in 1890 and I came along in 1966. It's fair to say I don't get many decent matches on that side as removed half relatives often fall in the zero cM bracket.

The plot thickens;

In the 1881 Sarah noted with her father Cornelius and also a sibling Henry plus the two year old Cornelius. Henry's  birth ref WESELDINE, HENRY mmn GOWEN GRO Reference: 1870 M Quarter in HORNCASTLE Volume 07A Page 535 (same quarter as Sarah's son Cornelius).

Someone pulled up a record on Fold 3 for Henry (I don't have a sub so can't see it myself)

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Attested 2 Brigade Royal Artillery with the rank of Driver from 7 Nov 1887 to 21 Mar 1888.
Transferred to 1st Brigade 22 Mar 1888 to 10 Aug 1888* .
Deserted 11 Aug 1888 to 31 Oct 1888
Rejoined 1 Nov 1888 to 19 Nov 1888
Awaiting trial 20-21 Nov 1888
Tried & Convicted 22 Nov 1888. All former service forfeited on conviction
Imprisoned 22 Nov 1888 - 16 Jan 1889
Continued 17 Jan 1889 - 20 Jan 1889
Deserted 21 Jan 1889


Stationed:
9 Nov 1887: Colchester
22 Mar 1888: Newcastle upon Tyne
03 May 1888: Weedon

Other Info:

Age: 18 years, 9 months, born Horncastle, occupation: Labourer
Height: 5ft 4 & 3/4 ins
Weight: 128lbs
Complexion: Fair, Eyes: Grey, Hair: Light Brown
Wesleyan
Tattooed a dot on lower and back part of left forearm
two Nervii over loins(?)

Father recorded as Cornelius Wesseldine, Horncastle
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The Courts Martial record says the trial was at Weedon on 22 Nov 1888 & sentenced to 56 days with hard labour

He vanishes from the records after that point, I can't find anything for him. As he doesn't seem to like military life I find it hard to think he uses the Dobbs alias and signs up again (and I think the military stuff in the name Dobbs overlaps timewise anyway) but where does he go? I have so many dna matches to this family through Sarah and her siblings but the closest so far is the grandchild of Sidney Ratcliffe who could be anything from a half 1st cousin to a half 1c2r.
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I have around 40 matches in total mostly on Ancestry who are descendants of the Cornelius and Harriet from the 1861.
Whilst they match me at anything up to 200cM they don't match any of my confirmed maternal relatives. I can now include the recent match on MH at 290cM who descends from Charles/Sidney into that group.  I've traced their kids forwards as best I can but there's still three  I haven't been able to follow completely;
Harriet  b1857
Mary Ann b1858
Henry aka Harry b1869. I think he's the army deserter reported in the Horncastle News in Nov 1888 but then I lose track of him altogether.  The family were involved with travelling shows so can be pretty transient at times, Cornelius snr is a regular in the papers usually being charged with being drunk or failing to quit licenced premises.  Many migrated to Lincoln in the 1880's  and my maternal family are largely in Lincoln from about 1830 and at Wragby earlier than that.  Both families had addresses on Hungate or Hungate Court but slightly different times.



A couple of days after this 280 cM match came up I had another match on MH taken by 'P' who on paper is my full maternal 1c but we only share 343cM, not enough for a full cousin match.  His nephew 'D' and grand nephew 'A' have also tested (matches to me at 319 and 280 respectively), as they are all MH tests I can see how much they share with each other;
P & D share 1537cM
P & A share 855cM
D & A share  3534cM
I would suggest that those amounts are all safely in the 'full' relative bracket so there's nothing dubious in their immediate family.  None of them have any matches within the Wesseldine group
P, D A and myself  only seem to have shared matches through one ancestor; my maternal grandmother and my feeling is my mother is therefore an NPE. My mother (the youngest of 9), was born in 1924 in Lincoln.

I hadn't found the Cockerill/Dobbs marriage so that's a bonus.

Limited value at best in my experience as it's based on where people are living (or claim to be), based on their profile information.  I have matches covering three generations of a family as far apart as Aberdeen, Kent and Cornwall, it's only by building their trees I know they are related and were all born in Sheffield from around 1950-2005. 
That's not to say it is entirely useless but it would take a lot of luck to find a family line with multiple testers who have adequate profile information, accurate trees and haven't moved far for many generations.

I've got the problem of having no living relatives above me now.  My mum's line had died out, she was a single child to a single child but I have had DNA matches with older generations in that family.  My dad and his siblings are all passed now and I've got matches to his mothers families and his dad's mothers side but the direct male line is known on paper but not confirmed by DNA.  They were notorious for affairs so I'd like to sort that one out some how.

Very much like my scenario, nobody from a generation above and my generation range from 57-79 years of age. I'm giving up on a lot of close relatives as they just copy from any old tree and ignore their dna results and the information in my tree and messages to them. I'm sure if I made a 2nd account and a fictitious tree showing a link to Cleopatra they would copy it and message me in a day bragging about the link.