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« on: Friday 01 February 13 19:59 GMT (UK) »
Yes, it should be 19 Queen St. Mayfair....
In answer to your 1st question, I haven't found her in the 1851 or 1861 census as I don't know which Jane she would be... I wondered, if given the fact she worked for a prominent citizen, after Berens' death in 1849 would she have been able to use her reference to work for someone else of the same calibre?
I know my great grandfather John Murray was born in 1862 in either Richmond or Chertsey, Surrey (depending on the census). No birth certificate has been found - he claimed his mother died when he was 12 leaving him an orphan and a 'stable boy' - he never mentioned siblings... to be raised by an 'Aunt Ellen' ?... He never talked about his mother or lack of father.
There is a Richmond, Surrey parish record I have showing a 'single woman Jane Murray' having a son John Murray born in 1860 but christened 1862 - her last residence 'Aldham Park, Herts'... but the 1861 Aldham Park census doesn't show a Jane Murray, and I don't know if this is them.
John Murray married Emma Cole in Battersea, Wandsworth 1883. He finally shows up in a census in 1891 - a Coachman at 16 Compton (?) Mews, Kensington. He states on his marriage certificate that his father is "John Murray - Butler", but I think he made that up. He never spoke of a 'father' to his kids except to say once that his father was a 'Scottish Chieftan'!.
A few days ago I found a burial record for the Wandsworth Union Workhouse showing "Jane Murray 36 years" dying in 1872 (which would have made John around 12 & would fit with his story), but to think a woman that worked near Buckingham Palace for the uppercrust, would possibly end up in the workhouse is hard to believe... the other interesting point I have is John was very cultured, played the organ, painted, could read/write, fabulous carpenter and carver, poet and became a well dressed Coachman... we just don't know where or how he learned all this on his own. It all adds to the mystery and I'm determined to solve it...